Living my reality after Facing my pass
Have you ever wake up and realize you are constantly experiencing the same different events throughout the course of your life. Such as your last few relationships which has all ended the same way, or no matter how many times you pay your credit card off you still seem to remain in credit card debt. Yeah that’s what majority of people call life, but we all know that isn’t life. Life is suppose to be full of happiness and abundance not fear, doubt, and resentments.
I find it hilarious how people have difficulties finding enjoyment in life. Like when we have a serendipity moment and find it so weird to enjoy, but once a traumatic issue occurs in our lives we seem to hold on to it forever. Not only do we hold on to it forever, we blame the person who may cause the traumatic issue. Even though the issue my have occurred 15 years prior we still blame that person for all the thoughts and fear we accumulate ourselves.
Over the weekend I read a book Which help me realize I’ve been living life caring my pass on my back.
The 3 Laws Of Performance by Steve Zafforn & David Logan
Law 1 : How people preform correlates how they perceive the situation.
People consistently always respond to the realities of the situation as they perceive it. Your perception will incorporate both your views from the past and your prediction about your future. No matter the situation, we all do this.
Law 2 : How a situation unfold arises in the language which get used
The language the is used describes a challenge can have a huge impact on whether or not you decide to make changes for the better. Often certain performances are unsaid or assumed. To move forward every situation needs to be cleaned out and addressed. All the clutter must be removed to have open space for better languages to be used on a consistent basis.
Law 3 : Future base language transfer how situations occurs to people
Language can be used in two different ways. It can be descriptive and generative Descriptive is describing what happen in the past and what the issues were. Generative is to create a new amazing future without the mental blindness that currently exist
The three laws of performance allow you to rewrite your own future. It helps you change the way you speak and think about your future which gaurentee you to achieve more.
Once I realize all my dramatic issues in my past were affecting my present life. I quickly took note on them and address them. This wasn’t easy. In fact it was super scary, but I gain courage and did it anyway. I faced issues that I had with my parents, ex boyfriends, friends, siblings, and Co workers. Man I literally felt like a free bird. My assumption on all the issues I was caring was complete CaCa. I could have resolve some of these issues 17 years ago. In fact if I did I know my life would be completely different.
Ive learn to just clear all and every issue I may have. Never assume anything, Face them dead on, Ask questions, and Understand the other parties prospective. If we just clear our mind while understanding the other person perspective in the exact moment of distress or confusion the world would absolutely be an better place.
Remember changing the world starts with you..